Thank you again as we celebrate another day in the Lord. Today is a continuation from the other day. The last post spoke about why do people have a hard time believing in others. Today our aim is to help people to start trusting and believing in others. We know there are people we can’t believe in at all. Who gives us the right to decide this. Just maybe the person we can’t believe in today will be somebody we need to trust in tomorrow.
Today our aim is to get you thinking about, trusting in others when all hope is gone. How do we put our trust back into people who have done us wrong. Forgiveness is the fundamental key in trusting or believing in others. Life can be complicated and we spend most of our life not believing in others for no reason at all. When we start believing in others or trusting others, then we can feel a relief coming off of us.
How do we flip the script? How do we start trusting in others again? First we must understand that everyone is not the same. Some people do have our own interests at heart. We can’t see it that way because we are judgmental at everything. The second thing to help us is start building bonds with people with common interests. This can help a person to build confidence in themselves and start to trust others.
How we review others is what we see from our own eyes, yet we criticize and think the worst in others. We do this because of how we hurt. The focus is on people and not a person. The problem of not believing in people because we feel since this group of people did me wrong why should i trust or believe in them any more.
Anger and resentment build inside of us and we say I will never trust them anymore. Yet it was a group of people but they don’t represent the way all people are.
I do think there is a process in trusting or believing in people. Again not all people we can trust but we can trust people again by having a change in our thinking, in our heart, and spirit. The change will come when we stop acting like we are scared of everyone and strive to be around people who respect us for who we are. Hurt in our lives gets us to the point we can’t and won’t trust others.
Now with a new thinking, new way of looking at people, it comes with forgiveness. Breaking the hold on us and not looking at people but getting to know them in a better way. We are so quick to judge others if we take the time to see where they are in life then we will understand the reason they act the way they do. You never know, you could be their support system they are looking for.
Start believing in each other. Time to raise people up and not be distant. Trust in others, we all have problems in life, but once we help and believe in ourselves and then we can trust others along the way. The last and final thought is what binds everything together. We will be looking at that later that is our trust and belief in God. I know people don’t believe in God but others do. The love we pour out to others will come back in full circle. The love that God has given all of us is the common denominator in people believing in themselves, others and God.
Remember love on each other and believe in yourself, others and God. This will help your life in a way you won’t understand.
Givin H.O.P.E. Ministry of Evangelism 